Dates For WidowsDates For Widows

MEANINGFUL DATING

Dating After Loss

Meet widows and widowers in a kind, private space. Build a profile, check matches, and message at your own pace with safety checks and first-date advice.

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Metric 01

1,200+

widow and widower profiles

Metric 02

92%

matches reply within 7 days

Metric 03

4.8/5

member rating

HOW IT WORKS

Four Simple Steps

Build a clear profile that shows who you are and what you want.

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1 profile review

Profile Setup

From $49/mo

Build a clear profile that shows who you are and what you want.

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5 matches weekly

Match Checks

From $79/mo

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Unlimited chat

Private Messaging

From $59/mo

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01Photo + ID check

Safety Verification

From $39/mo

Confirm member identity before you meet or share contact details.

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02One call included

First-Date Advice

From $69/mo

Get simple advice for the first meet, from place choice to exit plans.

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03Weekly group chat

Support Community

From $49/mo

Join grief-aware groups for talk, care, and steady support between dates.

SERVICES

Dating Help After Loss

Create your account, add basic details, and confirm your profile for trust.

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01

Join and Verify

Create your account, add basic details, and confirm your profile for trust.

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02

Build Your Profile

Share your story, your pace, and the kind of partner you want to meet.

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03

See Good Matches

We show matches that fit your values, age range, and life after loss.

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04

Chat and Meet

Use private chat, plan a first date, and move only when you feel ready.

REAL STORIES

Member Results

One profile setup review Five match checks monthly Private inbox access Safety badge setup First-date tip sheet

Billed monthlyBilled monthly

Starter

From $49/mo

  • One profile setup review
  • Five match checks monthly
  • Private inbox access
  • Safety badge setup
  • First-date tip sheet
Most popularBilled monthly

Signature

From $129/mo

  • Two profile reviews monthly
  • Fifteen match reviews monthly
  • Private messaging notes
  • Verified match filters
  • Grief group access
  • One live advice call
3-month minimum3-month minimum

Scale

From $299/mo

  • Four profile edits monthly
  • Weekly handpicked matches
  • Two private advice calls
  • ID and photo review
  • Date plan and script
  • Private group check-ins

WHAT CLIENTS SAY

What Clients Say

A clearer bio brought 18 replies and two easy first chats.

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Widows

Calm Profile, Fast Replies

A clearer bio brought 18 replies and two easy first chats.

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Widowers

Safe Meet in London

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Support

Support Before Romance

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Matchmaking

More Good Matches

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Safety

Trust Before The Date

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Grief-aware dating plans

Mara Collins

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Compatibility checks

Jonah Reed

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Profile and ID review

Talia Hart

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First-date advice

Ben Mercer

Proof

Customer notes

Verified

“I felt safe from the first message, and the matches fit my pace.”

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Ruth Bennett

Member, Dates For Widows

Verified

“The profile help made it easy to say who I am and what I want.”

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Steven Hall

Widower Member, Dates For Widows

Verified

“I liked the clear safety check before my first coffee meet.”

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Priya Shah

Member, Dates For Widows

Service area

New York Metro

New York City, Newark, Jersey City, White Plains

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Area 01

New York Metro

New York City, Newark, Jersey City, White Plains

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Area 02

Greater Toronto

Toronto, Mississauga, Brampton, Vaughan

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Area 03

London Area

London, Croydon, Watford, Enfield

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Area 04

Sydney Region

Sydney, Parramatta, Bondi, Chatswood

The Map

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Dating Tips For You

Questions

Common Questions

Quick answers before visitors choose a product, service, or next step.

01Is this only for widows and widowers?+

Yes. The site is made for people who lost a spouse and want company, friendship, or romance at a pace that feels right.

02How do you check safety?+

We review photos and ID, show verified badges, and let you chat in private before you share contact details.

03Can I keep my name private?+

Yes. You choose a display name, hide your last name, and decide who can message you, so you stay in control.

04Do you help with first dates?+

Yes. We share simple first-date tips, safe meet ideas, and a short plan you can use before you go.

05What if I am still grieving?+

You can move slowly, read support posts, and join grief-aware groups before you try dating or meeting anyone.

06Can I cancel anytime?+

Yes. You can stop your plan online at any time, and access stays on until the paid term ends after that.

Get Dating Tips

Get short emails with profile tips, safety notes, and first-date advice for widows and widowers.